Exercise and Christianity

Since I became a fitness professional (as a personal trainer) I’ve made an intentional effort to practice what I preach.  It’s not enough to have the knowledge to simply prescribe a workout routine for people and expect them to become healthier.  I firmly believe a good trainer needs to model a healthy lifestyle to be effective.

In addition to training, it has been my experience that I also need to have open discussions about health-related topics as a normal part of my days and relationships with people.  I want my fitness profession to be more than a job – I want it to be a significant component to my life.  So I approach relationship with the lens of “how can I be a resource and an encouragement to those with whom I interact?”

As these conversations have taken place, I’ve realized that my fitness profession and my Christianity have something in common.  It seems to me that these two aspects of my life can come across as over-zealous and even self-righteous.  Here’s what I mean.

I admit that I don’t talk about my faith as much as I should.  I’ve certainly had opportunities and relationships where I’ve been able to be more vocal, and I feel good when I can share my faith.  But the general consensus in this country and culture is that talking about Christianity comes off as ‘better-than-thou.’  I hate that.  But it seems true.  Any discussion of Jesus, the Bible, my morals, or my views on family and society are interpreted as though I don’t sin, I don’t accept anyone else’s lifestyles, I’m unforgiving, or no one lives up to my standards.  Have you ever felt unreasonably pegged and wanted to defend yourself?

Let’s look at the excercise profession.  Since learning about physical and health education at the University of Wisconsin, I’ve realized how important health and fitness is to our culture.  Over 66% of the population is overweight – and almost half of that group is obese!  This has created a passion in me to see more individuals gain their health back and begin to feel better about themselves.  As noted above, I figure I’ll be more effective if I practice what I preach, but to be honest I’d probably be doing this training even if my profession was unrelated.

But then comes my dilema.  I’m thin, I’m active, I eat very healthy (thanks to Katie) and I compete in marathons.  How does this look to those I’m trying to reach?  To some it’s exactly what they’d expect.  But to others (usually the very-overweight ones) it just seems like they want to say, “Easy for you to say, Hans.  You’re in great shape and I could never get to that point.”  Maybe I’m reading into this or maybe I’m not bringing them along with me in the conversation.  But it sure feels like people hear me talk about fitness and just don’t care or don’t think it’s attainable.

So my faith and my profession seem to have this in common:  when you’re part of “the group” you’re elite and so you must be looking down on those that aren’t.  I guess at this point it’s just an observation.  I don’t have evidence of this and I don’t have a solution.  But I believe God has called me to develop these aspects in my life and I also believe he’s given me a voice and is allowing me to develop and grow that voice to work for His good.  So I’ll keep pushing my agenda and practicing what I preach.

"How Could You Not?"

There are certain things you run across and say, “that’s good.”  This video from Donald Miller and the Mentoring Project does just that.  While I’m promoting this video, I don’t mean to convey that I’m fully on board, because I’m not.  I can’t right now.  But it’s still an important message that needs to be heard so I’m trying to spread it.  If you like it, pass on a link to this post to someone who may sign up with the Mentoring Project.


Mentoring Spotlight – Ben and Dennis from The Mentoring Project on Vimeo.

And the free book goes TO…..

The first responder, Mr. Persistance, the reader and writer himself… Mr. Jaye Barbeau.  This guy hounded me on Facebook and recruited his friends to write on his behalf – well played, Sir.  It was difficult to turn down the web-man Jeff Miles because he’s helping to update my blog and take it to the next level.  Crowning him winner would have been for selfish gain.  Nice try Miles – I guess I’ll have to pay those consulting fees after all.  But today all the glory goes to Jaye Barbeau. 

Thanks to everyone who commented and participated in my give-away.  Please take a moment to see if my blogging material might interest you on a weekly basis.  My blog is focusing on family, leadership, fitness/exercise, social media, and a few stories about sports.  You can subscribe and get it right to your inbox for free.

And remember – there may or may not be a NOOMA video give-away in the weeks to come.  Thanks again.

Jaye – the book is on its way.

Book Giveaway – Donald Miller’s "A Million Miles"

I have recently started reviewing books for Thomas Nelson as part of their book review bloggers program.  My second title will probably be an all-time favorite – Donald Miller‘s “A Million Miles in a Thousand Years.”  Katie and I were sitting on the porch when the UPS man pulled up with a box that was bigger than expected… because there were TWO books included!!

The publisher (CEO Michael Hyatt) thought that the book was so good that he wanted us to give away a copy to a friend.  So I’ve decided to have a little fun with this.  I’ve teased this on Facebook and Twitter for the last week and here on my blog I’ll be giving away the free copy.

Here’s what will happen:

  1. You post a comment at the bottom of this post telling me why you deserve the free copy.  Include your first name or an identifying title.  Get creative!!
  2. You email me your full name and address in case I choose you as the winner. (Hans@uwalumni.com OR message me on Facebook)  IMPORTANT:  include “Donald Miller book” in the subject so I can sort through them.
  3. I’ll pick a winner on Wednesday night and post something on Thursday. 

If you’re so inclined, please check out my blog and participate in some conversations.  Oh, did I mention I may or may not have some Nooma videos to give away later?  Shameless promotion, I know.

Book Review: Fearless by Max Lucado

Fear is simple: “I’m scared of…”  Fill in the blank.  But when we examine the dimensions of fear, we see that it can play a significant role in various aspects of our lives.  Max Lucado unpacks all the subtle places fear can attack us and what the Bible says about how we should respond.

Plain and simple: in America 2009 we have realized that things we take for granted are not as secure as we thought.  Our jobs, investments, and retirement accounts are not guaranteed anymore.  Fear slowly pushed its way in and now has hit many of us square in the jaw.  Personally I’ve never felt uncertainty (in the job market) like this season I’m in.  I’m glad for Max’s words to investigate and remember what Jesus had to say about trusting him.  In classic Lucado fashion, Fearless shows us how Christians should respond to different fears in our lives.  Do we ultimately bring all things to Jesus?  Of course we should… And what a reassuring message when so many practical aspects of our lives, from career to money to family to death, are infected with fear.

I’ve included a video of Max talking about Fearless.

For more books by Thomas Nelson Publishing, visit their website.

Reviewing Books

A few months back I stumbled upon a blog by Michael Hyatt, CEO of Thomas Nelson Publishing.  Somewhere in there I found out that they have a blogger review program.  The idea is that they ship you an advanced copy of a book in return for a book review that you post on your blog, their website, and at least one commercial site (such as Amazon).  Well I’m always a fan of free stuff and I figured it would be a good way to add some goals to my reading habit and challenge me in my writing hobby.

The first book I received was Fearless by Max Lucado.  I’ve read a few of Max’s books, so I knew what to expect.  But what convinced me to choose this book was Hyatt’s raving review of the book – that it was one of the most timely books written considering the state of our nation.  And did I mention it was free?  I’ll be reviewing the book Tuesday morning, so please check out the review and post a comment of you’re so inclined – the publishers will appreciate your feedback and attention.

I’ve already got the next book – it’s by one of my favorite authors, Donald Miller.  His new book is entitled A Million Miles in a Thousand Years.  I’m so excited to read this because Katie has already stole my copy and is at page 190 in less than 48 hours!  Michael Hyatt liked the book so much that he included a second copy so that we could give one away, so I’ll be giving away a free copy on my blog on Tuesday September 8th.  Stay tuned if you’re interested!

Twitter: What Has Your Attention

I am a huge fan of Twitter.  But many people I talk to are still confused about what it is and why someone would do it.  Twitter originally (and probably still) asked users, “What are you doing?”  And this is why I get so much negative feedback about Twitter – because that’s such a self-centered question.  People ask me, “Why are you so important that people want to know what you had for lunch today?”

That’s their best response:  Who cares what you’re eating right now or that you’re at the gas station…

I agree!!  Who CARES!?!?!

Why Twitter?  When you give Twitter a couple weeks of your time, at only 5 minutes per day, you’ll see how it can be so addicting.  Personally, I follow people interested in business, leadership, exercise, and social media.  These are all interests of mine and I can instantly get information that is relevant to my life.  You see, instead of using Twitter to answer the question “what are you doing”, the people I follow are basically commenting on “what has your attention right now.”  Do you see the difference?  The later question means we’re sharing information about interests, not necessarily ME.

The other thing that non-Twitter users don’t understand is how quickly we can filter through unnecessary tweets.  Especially on my iPod touch, I can page right through a handful of people’s tweets depending on how much time I have at that particular moment.  I can also add tweets to my favorites so I can go back later when I have more time and read further.

Have I peaked your interest?  As with email, Facebook, and even talking to people on the phone, Twitter can be used as much or as little as you want.  I’m not a slave to Twitter – I use it as a tool.  And it can be a powerful tool for information, ideas, research, and relationships if use it right.

First 30 pages of Donald Miller’s New Book

Currently I’m using my blog as an extension of my reading on Twitter and the blogs that I follow. Donald Miller is beginning to promote his new book, which I’ll be reviewing for Nelson Publishing and posting here on the Game Plan.

Did you read Blue Like Jazz? Great memoir of Don’s, a must-read. Are you excited for his next book, A Million Miles in a Thousand Years? If so, here’s the first 30 pages to get you started.

A Million Miles In A Thousand Years by Donald Miller

Donald Miller’s Mentoring Project

There are a few people I really enjoy following, and one of them is Donald Miller. Earlier I posted a widget of his upcoming tour and new book (which has a free audio download!). Now I’m excited to help him promote the Mentoring Project – an organization that “exists to inspire and equip the faith community to provide positive male role models to boys between the ages of 7 and 14.”

The Mentoring Project – Elephant Musth Cycle from The Mentoring Project on Vimeo.

Sorin’s Dedication

dedicate: to set apart for a special purpose

Intentionality is tough these days. There are so many things fighting for our time and attention. And if you don’t have priorities straight and maintain a disciplined lifestyle, the world can pull a person in many different (and bad) directions.

One element of a balance life for Katie and me is our relationship with Christ. To say “one element” isn’t even fully accurate. We try daily to make that element the pivotal element of our lives. It’s a difficult task and we’re growing in that relationship as the years go on. But if we were to be defined by one aspect of our lives, it would be our faith in God.

In light of our Christian walks with God, Katie and I want to dedicate Sorin to the Lord. We want to commit ourselves to raising Sorin in the ways of the Lord. We want to be intentional without being demanding. Is that possible? We believe so.

Last Sunday (August 16) we had our dedication for Sorin. After weeks of planning, I had the ceremony planned and Katie had the food/party organized. We had about 38 people attending which was a big number. But as I was gathering the people to begin, I realized how appreciative I was that each and every person was there. I believe that it truly takes a village to raise a child, and we value our friends and family as they encourage us in the process.

I guess I can’t say much more in this post. The whole weekend was very reflective for me, so stay tuned for more insight into our dedication.